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Why DO Men Want A Strong Woman on Their Arm BUT Not in Their Lives?
Why is that?
As a black woman I can speak for myself saying that I am very strong willed in various areas of my life. I use to be BAD......
You know ladies the over independent woman of God! However, I realized that even though I have toned down a great deal over the years.. it is NOT always the issue with the strong black woman syndrome....
I found out that it is ALSO.. the intimidatiing black man syndrome..
I have had the opportunity to talk to men of all walks of life who are:
in ministry
college students
unsaved
different lines of work
and the foundation of the questions that I asked and the answers that I received were just what the title of my BLOG SAID!
It is like when you have heard.. men like a lady in public but a freak in the bedroom.. ( please dont be deep.. we all have heard that )
However it is the SAME WAY with strong women...... Yes even as I am typing this now.. the Lord dropped Sara Palin in my spirit..
Women.. we are strong.. needed.. adored and desired... MEN NEED US
However... they want what we can HELP THEM DO... To have a strong woman in a man's life who does not know who he is can be deadly..
I said to myself regarding the males that I had talked to.. wow.. they desire to have it be known that they have a strong woman meaning:
she has the capability to take care of the home
take care of the kids
have 2 to 3 degrees
have a decent paying job
knows how to make much out of noting
has the ability to network to get her husband ahead
and the list goes on like a bad credit report. but to REMAIN in their lives for the long haul.. THEY DONT WANT IT!!
Most of their replies where like..... that is good for a minutes.. but in the end.. I dont want a woman who knows or can do more than I can!!
So I said all of this to say...
" Know YOUR Worth Ladies... and Never Go on Sale"....
As a black woman I can speak for myself saying that I am very strong willed in various areas of my life. I use to be BAD......
You know ladies the over independent woman of God! However, I realized that even though I have toned down a great deal over the years.. it is NOT always the issue with the strong black woman syndrome....
I found out that it is ALSO.. the intimidatiing black man syndrome..
I have had the opportunity to talk to men of all walks of life who are:
in ministry
college students
unsaved
different lines of work
and the foundation of the questions that I asked and the answers that I received were just what the title of my BLOG SAID!
It is like when you have heard.. men like a lady in public but a freak in the bedroom.. ( please dont be deep.. we all have heard that )
However it is the SAME WAY with strong women...... Yes even as I am typing this now.. the Lord dropped Sara Palin in my spirit..
Women.. we are strong.. needed.. adored and desired... MEN NEED US
However... they want what we can HELP THEM DO... To have a strong woman in a man's life who does not know who he is can be deadly..
I said to myself regarding the males that I had talked to.. wow.. they desire to have it be known that they have a strong woman meaning:
she has the capability to take care of the home
take care of the kids
have 2 to 3 degrees
have a decent paying job
knows how to make much out of noting
has the ability to network to get her husband ahead
and the list goes on like a bad credit report. but to REMAIN in their lives for the long haul.. THEY DONT WANT IT!!
Most of their replies where like..... that is good for a minutes.. but in the end.. I dont want a woman who knows or can do more than I can!!
So I said all of this to say...
" Know YOUR Worth Ladies... and Never Go on Sale"....
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